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Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Update on Project New Me

I know that I have not posted anything for quite awhile and it has been even longer since I did a "Project New Me" update. While Project New Me has still been in effect even though I have not updated in a while.

About two weeks ago I actually started a phase (ie diet). My husband has been doing Medifast for the 2 months or so and I finally decided to try it out too. Day 1 of Medifast was on 9/2/13. And I weighed in at 175lbs. I also took my body measurements (which are listed down below). I will be trying to take this every month to track my process so I will not do this again until 10/2.

My Measurements at the start of Medifast:
Upper Arms: 14.0 in
Chest: 35.0 in
Waist: 37.0 in
Hips: 45.0 in
Thighs: 27.0 in

After 2 weeks of being on plan I have drop 10 LBS!!!!! And I feel great about it. I have actually started to have people tell me that they can see a difference!!!! I am so excited about getting myself into a healthier body. The package food from Medifast is actually not all the bad. I was not sure that I was really going to like any of it and there have been things that I will not order again. Some of favorites are the French Vanilla Shakes, the S'more Crunch bar and the Caramel Crunch bar. This plan has also forced me to start cooking dinner every night. Which I am actually finding that I enjoy more then I thought I would. We would cook dinner sometime but mostly it consisted of throwing something on the grill or order in. My husband and I have tried out several different recipes and I think I am going to start putting some of our favorites on a page here on the blog.

Starting weight on Project New Me: 185 lbs
Current weight: 165 lbs
Goal weight: 135 lbs (this has been updated)

So here are my goals:
1. Drop 5 lbs 
2. Work out every day even if it only for 10 minutes {I am not allowed to work out yet on this new plan}
3. Drop 10 lbs 
4. Follow my diet
5. Drop 15 lbs 
6. Don't cheat, ie no candy
7. Drop 20 lbs 
8. Drop 25 lbs
9. Drop 30 lbs
10. Drop 35 lbs
11. Drop 40 lbs
12. Drop 45 lbs
13. Drop 50 lbs

Until next time.

Days 213-254 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

8/8: I am thankful for my sister-in-law Julie who is celebrating her birthday today. HAPPY BIRTHDAY JULIE!!

8/9: TGIF!!!

8/10: I am thankful for getting to spend the whole day with Riley, just the two of us.

8/11: I am grateful for lazy Sundays.

8/12: I am grateful that Riley is so well behaved in the doctor's office.

8/13: I am grateful for my mom who is able to take Riley to appointments and takes such great care of her.

8/14: I am thankful to have Netflix on my phone.

8/15: I am thankful that my friends from high school and I still make an effort to get together on a regular basis. 

8/16: I am grateful for the large support network that we have. It is amazing to me how many people support who aren't related to us 

8/17: I am grateful for wonderful friend that we got I have dinner with today. 

8/18:  I am grateful I my mom who allowed me to come to her house at 630 in their bing after Riley's sleep study so that I could take. Nap

8/19: I am grateful for a wonderful friend Becky whose birthday is today. She and I have been friends since 4th grade. HAPPY BIRTHDAY BECKY!!

8/20: I am so grateful that Riley is finally starting to feel more like herself.

8/21: I am grateful for a wonderful night out with a great friend tonight. 

8/22:  I am thankful to my Uncle Chris who let me use his football tickets tonight

8/23: I am grateful for the pretty rainbow that I saw today.

8/24:  I am grateful for a fun day of family time 

8/25: I am thankful for my sister-in-law go spent the day with today

8/26:  I am grateful for Riley's new teacher who specifically requested to have Riley I her class

8/27:  I am thankful for my very good friend Melinda who is celebrating her birthday today. HAPPY BIRTHDAY DUH!!

8/28: I thankful for youtube for the funny videos that make my day.

8/29: I am thankful for my good friend Nicole who is celebrating her birthday today. HAPPY BIRTHDAY NICOLE!!

8/30: I am grateful for how well Riley is doing.  She climbed the steps today pretty much by her self.

8/31: I am thankful that we were able to travel to see our Godson today. And I am doubly thankful that he is as healthy a he can be right now. 

9/1:  I am grateful to have had a wonderful meal and fun game night with good friends 

9/2:  I am grateful to have gotten to spend a beautiful Labor Day with my family on their boat 

9/3: I am grateful for my beautiful Godson  HAPPY BIRTHDAY IAN!!!

9/4: I am thankful for a good cup of tea.

9/5: I am grateful for each new thing that Riley learns.  She has really shown interest and is getting rather good at feeding herself mostly by herself.

9/6:  I am thankful that my first work week of Medifast went so well. 

9/7: I am thankful an email that I receive form Riley teacher last year.  She contact simply to tell me that she wished Riley a wonderful year even though she had left the school where Riley goes.

9/8: I am thankful that Riley got to play with her cousin Zander today.

9/9: I am grateful that Riley loves going to school so much that she throws a tantrum when we pick up.

9/10: I am thankful that my husband got to go hunting today because he really enjoyed it and got his first deer of the season.

9/11: I am grateful that I go to spend a wonderful dinner with a great friend, who went the extra step to make sure I did not eat the bread at Outback. THANKS MELIN!!

9/12: I am grateful that my husband and I are supporting each other on this diet so that we both are successful.

9/13: I am grateful for my Take Shape for Life coach for encouraging me everyday.

9/14: I am greatly for the beautiful weather that we had today so that the family for go the county fair.

9/15: I am thankful to my wonderful husband who let me take a nap today.

9/16: I am thankful for how happy Riley is as soon as I walk in the door.  It does not matter how bad my day was she always has a smile and a big hug waiting for me when I come in.

9/17: I am greatly that I have been plan to stick to my diet and now have drop another 10 lbs.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Days 144-212 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

So We have had a very long difficult summer.  Riley spent all of June in the hospital and as such I had a hard time finding things to be thankful for.  I have listed that time as one entry.  I am also going to do a thankful thing per week for July, there will probable be multiple item on each date set.  After this post I am going to go back to finding one thing a day to be thankful for.

6/2-6/24: I am grateful for all of the doctors, nurses, and staff that saved Riley's life and took such good care of her.

6/25-6/29: I am grateful to have Riley home. And for my mom for staying overnight at our house for the few days that we were home so I could get some sleep.

6/30-7/6: I am thankful to live in the USA.

7/7-7/13: I am thankful that Kyle is off midnights.

7/14-7/20: I am grateful for my wonderful friends.  I am thankful that Riley's swallow test showed that she is not aspirating anymore.

7/21-7/27: I am thankful to be on vacation with my family.

7/28:-8/3: I am thanking that Riley is super cuddling when she is not feeling well.

8/4: I am thankful that Riley is finally feeling better after being sick for a week.

8/5: I am thankful for a quiet day off of work to spend with my girl.

8/6: I am thankful that Riley is health, happy, and home.

8/7: I am grateful for coffee as I really needed it today.

8/8: I am grateful that today Riley climb up 2-3 steps with very little help.

Saturday, June 8, 2013

Hospital stay updates

These are the updates that I have been putting on facebook.  I decided to get them together in one spot in case anyone missed any of them.

5/30/13:
For those of you that don't know Riley ha her tonsils out yesterday. She is in pain and not her normally smiley self as to be expected. We will be in the hospital until at least tomorrow. Please continue to keep her in your thoughts and prayers

6/1/13:
On Wednesday Riley went in to have her tonsils taken out, the surgery went fine. Thursday night she developed a fever and vomiting, she was running a fever all day on Friday. Friday late afternoon, she took a turn for the worst. Her oxygen levels dropped very low and the doctors and RTs tried everything they could to bring them back up. It was decided that Riley needed to be sedated and put on a ventilator. We are currently in the Pediatric ICU at John Hopkins, and will most likely be here for at least a week.

Riley is doing better today but she is a very sick little girl. Right now the only thing that we really need to good thoughts and prayers sent Riley's way. She is a strong little girl and we and the doctors are confident that she will recover from this without any lasting effects.


6/2/13:
Not much change with Riley today. She is still sedated and on the ventilator. Katie and I are giving her lots of love, sent from so many people. Thanks for all the prayers and kind words. We are staying positive and are thankful that the doctors think that when she recovers there will be no lasting effects. Thank goodness for that

6/3/13:
We are still in the PICU and still on the vent. They have been able to lower some of her setting, but it has been slow process. Riley has developed a fever and her heart rate has been high, but the doctors are trying different things to get the fever under control and when her fever is down so is her heart rate. They may be switching her to a different vent either today or tomorrow. Small steps is all we can ask for.

I wanted to thank everything for your thoughts and prayers. They are greatly appreciated and needed. At this point there is not really anything that we need, other then for you to keep us in your thoughts

6/5/13 (8:38 am):
Riley had a pretty good night overnight. Her heart rate, blood pressure, & oxygen levels are good. They did decide to give her another unit of blood as some of her levels were down. She seems to have liked it as her stats seems to be stable.

She is still on the vent and requiring about 60% oxygen to keep her happy. The doctors still have her heavily sedated, but she is moving in response to being touched. When she gets over stimulated she will pull away from you. So it is a constant debate whether to be standing at her bedside holding her hand or just sitting quietly next to her.

Riley's chest x-ray from yesterday did look a little better, but we still have a ways to go. I have not seen the x-ray from today yet as the doctors have not yet rounded.

We have been talking with the RTs and doctors and will probable be in the hospital for about a month. They are also saying that she may have asthma after this is all done, as any time you blow air into the lungs it does some damage and your lungs are never prefect again.

The RT also told us that he thought would probable come home on a biPAP machine. Which is like a cPAP, but helps you when to breath in AND out.


6/5/13 (12:40):

Her latest chest x-ray was worst, the bottom of her lungs has collapsed.  They started her percussion chest PT every 4 hours when she gets her albuterol.

6/6/13:

We had a good news / bad news day today. She is still on the vent and requiring about 50% oxygen to keep her happy. The doctors still have her heavily sedated, but she is moving in response to being touched. 

Good News: Her chest x-ray was better this morning. Good News: The doctors have been able to identify the virus (Human metapneumovirus) that they believe Riley had before surgery, but was not showing symptoms of until after surgery. So now we know why crashed so hard, so quickly on Friday. Bad news: The virus just has to run it's course. Good news: We are already about half way through the virus' course.

Bad news Riley has picked up a bacteria while in the hospital (an unfortunate consequence of being in the hospital alot of the time). Good news: The antibiotic she is on seems to be help to fight it.

Bad news:The medication that Riley has been on for sedation and pain is a narcotic so she has to slowly have it replaced with another medication then we will have to ween off the new medication too. It will be a bit of a long process.

Riley is still in for a long recovery. We will be in the PICU for a while still and the hospital even longer. Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers.


6/8/13:

Riley had a pretty calm day today.  

We are still on the vent, but they have been able to lower a several of the settings.  They are planning on lowering even more tonight.  


The doctors have started to ween her off some of her sedation so she is moving around more.  In typical Riley (aka Houdini Bodenhorn) fashion she was actually able to get out of one of her restrains today during rounds with the doctors.  Luckily we caught her before she could do any damage.


Riley's coloring in looking better, her heart rate, blood pressure, and oxygen levels have all been good so far today.



Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

6/13/13:

Riley Update:
The last 60 hours for Riley have been very good. Her fever has broken, her heart rate and blood pressures have been good. How oxygen levels have been pretty good. In the last 24 hours the doctors have been making good changes to her vent settings. 

Yesterday's chest x-ray look better, there had not been much change to it for the days prior. I have not seen today's x-ray or heard the plan for today yet as the doctors have not been on their rounds yet. 

But we are moving in a good direction. Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

6/17/13:

It has been a really good 72 hours.  

The doctors had planned on taking Riley off the vent on Saturday morning...  Well Riley decided the she was done with it on Friday night.  When she woke up from the heavy meds she had been on and started fighting the vent.  The doctor made the decision to pull the tube early instead of medicating her even heavier.  So at 10:30 pm on Friday night just over two weeks (by about 4 hours) since the tube had gone in it came out.


Friday night was a rough night with almost no sleep for either Riley or I as she was very uncomfortable (I think I would be uncomfortable too if I had a tube in my throat for 2 weeks) and would not let me out of her sight.


Saturday was the first time I was able to hold Riley since this all started and she I am both took an hour and half nap.  When my mom got here we switched places and I napped on the couch for 5 hours while Riley slept on my mom.



Sunday was more sleeping, but today PT came in and worked her for a good hour.  And by the end she was much more alert, but also very tired.  Riley has been able start taking food by mouth.  

We are ready to get off the PICU floor but are waiting for a bed. Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers.


6/20/13:
Riley is doing really well. We were moved to a regular floor. The doctors are slowly weaning Riley off the medications that she is on, at the rate we are going she should be off all her medications in 12 days.

Riley is still on some oxygen, but they are going to try turning in off tomorrow.

Our biggest hurtle right now is Riley's feeding. She is having a hard time with liquids, so tomorrow we are doing a swallow test to see what is going on when she is drinking.

I got my first Riley hug last night it was wonderful. She is starting to act more like herself everyday.
 

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6/24/13:
We are very happy to have Riley home. We were released from the hospital today after being there for 27 days. Riley is still requiring oxygen during the day and we came home on a feeding tube that is placed in her nose, but WE ARE HOME! Thank you to everyone that has been praying and sending us wonderful thoughts.

Saturday, June 1, 2013

Days 131-143 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

5/20: I am grateful that my mom is flexible with her schedule so that I could go into work today and have off on Friday.

5/21: I am thankful that I am continuing to make progress on my weight loss.

5/22: I am grateful that I was able to get alot done at work today as I will be out for the next two days.

5/23: I am thankful that our appointment with the neurosurgeon went well.

5/24: I am thankful that I was able to take today off so that I could help Amye to get ready for her big day tomorrow.

5/25: I am thankful that we had a beautiful day for Amye and Gavin's wedding.  And that everything went very smoothly.

5/26: I am grateful to my parent for watching Riley last night so that Kyle and I could have a night out.

5/27: I am thankful for all the military members who are away from their families protecting this country so I can living safely.

5/28: I am thankful that I was able to get everything packed that I need for Riley hospital stay tonight so i don't have to worry about it tomorrow.

5/29: I am thankful that Riley's surgery went well.

5/30: I am thankful that we had a quiet day in the hospital today.

5/31: I am thankful for the amazing doctors, nurses, and RTs in PICU at Johns Hopkins.  I am especially thankful to the one RT that kept a calm attitude and thus kept me calm when all hell was breaking loose with Riley's oxygen levels.

6/1:  I am grateful that Riley had a good day today!

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Still in Limboland

We had an appointment with the ENT on the 9th.  The appointment went well.  As I expected the ENT wants to do surgery to remove Riley's tonsils.  She is also going to look to see whether Riley's adenoids have grown back and if they have she is going to take them again too.  We have scheduled this for the 29th of the month, however the plans may change.

We still do not know about whether the neurosurgeon is going to want to do anything and we won't until we go an see him this Thursday.  I will do a more in depth updated after that appointment because then we should have a full plan, but I wanted to do a quick update today.

Days 119-130 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

5/8: I am grateful for quiet evenings spent with Kyle and Riley.

5/9: I am grateful that we have such a good relationship with our ENT.  She is leaving for another state and was completely honest with us about which of her partners we should start seeing.

5/10:  I am grateful that I am able to work from home on days that Riley has doctor's appointments.

5/11:  I am grateful to whoever came up with the idea of massages.  I went for a 1 hour one today and it was awesome.  I need to do that more often.

5/12: I am grateful my mother on this Mother's Day.  She is the most awesome woman I have had the pleasure of knowing.  And I am lucking that she is my mommy.

5/13:  I am grateful for my father.  Today is my Dad's birthday.  He is an amazing man.  He is always willing to help anyway he can and has taught me what it mean to be generous.  I love you Daddy!!

5/14: I am grateful for my father-in-law.  Today is his birthday.  Thank you for creating Kyle.

5/15: I a grateful to the beautiful weathI er that we have been having.

5/16: I am grateful to Kyle for taking Riley to her doctor's appointment today and handling the aftermath of it.

5/17: I am grateful that I am able to work a flex schedule.  I had to go home early yesterday and I was able to make up several hours today by going into work early and staying late.

5/18: I am thankful for the two strangers that helped me without be asked today at the grocery store.  One held my cart will I tried to get Riley in and the other return my cart to the cart return after I loaded my bags.  It helps to restore my faith in the human race.

5/19: I am grateful that Riley decided to sleep in this morning because it meant that I got to sleep in too.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Limboland


I have been putting off writing this post for a few weeks.  First I was trying to do more research about it and then I decided that I did not want to worry everyone who follows this for an extended period of time.  But we are hopeful that we will have a few answers by the end of the week so I decided to post this now.

Riley has decided that we needed a visit to Limboland. I hate Limboland. Limboland is a place where you know something is wrong whether it is a serious something or a not so serious something. It is a place where you do not have the answer to the most important questions: "How do we fix this?" "Where do we go from here?" "What can we do RIGHT NOW?" "Has is caused damage already?" "Are we going in for another surgery?" "How long will we be in the hospital this time?" "When can I get in to see the doctors I need? No it can't wait a month; she needs to be seen now." "Does she need a trach again?"

These are not fun questions but they are the questions that have been running through my head since I talked to Riley’s pulmonologist. Riley had a follow up sleep study on the April 12th from her shunt revision back in September. And to say it did not go well would be the BIGGEST understatement I have ever made. Riley’s apnea is worst then it has EVER been.

Before I go into the results I want to define a few of the terms that I am going to use throughout the rest of this post.

Apnea: is a period of time during which breathing stops or is markedly reduced.
· Obstructive apnea (OA): is when air cannot flow into or out of the person's nose or mouth although efforts to breathe continue due, the airway collapses completely allowing no air to pass through during sleep causing the individual to snort and gasp for breath
· Hypopnea (H): is breathing that is shallower or slower than normal. This is a partial obstruction, the airway collapses partial it allows some air to pass through, however much smaller and it is accompanied by a arousal from sleep (either a complete arousal where the person is awake or an arousal where they simply come out of REM sleep) or a desaturation of oxygen for 20 seconds of more.
· Mixed apnea (MA): is a combination of central and obstructive apnea and is seen particularly in infants or young children who have abnormal control of breathing. Mixed apnea may occur when a child is awake or asleep
· Central apnea (CA): occurs when the brain fails to send the appropriate signals to the breathing muscles to initiate respirations
· Hypoxemia (Oxygen Desaturation): occur when oxygen in blood drops, meaning an abnormally low partial pressure of oxygen, content of oxygen or percent saturation of hemoglobin with oxygen, in combination with each other or individually (I refer to this as destat throughout my blog)
Polysomnography: (sleep study) is a comprehensive recording of the biophysiological changes that occur during sleep by monitoring many body functions including brain (EEG), eye movements (EOG), muscle activity or skeletal muscle activation (EMG), heart rhythm (ECG), the breathing functions respiratory airflow and respiratory effort indicators and peripheral pulse oximetry during sleep.
Respiratory Disturbance Index (RDI): is one very important measure of the severity of the sleep disorder. The RDI represents how many times per hour breathing stops or becomes very shallow. This index is important because it is often associated with disruption of sleep and dangerous drops in blood oxygen levels.
Arousal: abrupt transition from a deeper stage of sleep to a shallower stage
Continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP): is a treatment that uses mild air pressure to keep the airways open.
Hypoventalation: Abnormally slow and shallow respiration, resulting in an increased level of carbon dioxide in the blood.
Arnold Chiari malformation: is a structural defect in the cerebellum, the part of the brain that controls balance. The lower rear of the skull is smaller than normal, and thus the cerebellum and brainstem can be pushed downward. The resulting pressure on the cerebellum can block the flow of cerebrospinal fluid (the liquid that surrounds and protects the brain and spinal cord) and can cause a range of symptoms including dizziness, muscle weakness, numbness, vision problems, headache, and problems with balance and coordination
Tracheostomy: is a surgically created opening in the neck leading directly to the trachea or the breathing tube. It is kept open with a hollow tube called a tracheostomy tube (or trach as I refer to it throughout this blog).

Now that the vocabulary lesson is over let get back to what is going with Riley.

I think this may be the first time that I might have reached Red Alert status since coming home from the NICU.  I have wondered what it would take to get me to Red Alert status and the numbers from the sleep study seem to be doing it. When I first heard the new numbers I was freaked out but then calm came over me.

I told myself that we would figure it out. We would circle the wagons, gather the medical team (pulmonary, ENT, and neurology), make a plan, and fix this. So got on the phone and called the ENT to set up an appointment with her. I emailed the Neurosurgeon who we already had an appointment with for 5/23 to see if he wanted us to come in earlier or wanted any more tests before we came in. ENT can see on 5/9, and Neurology did not think that we needed to come in sooner. He also did not want an additional testing. I am on Red Alert and her doctors don’t seem as concerned.  Now I love Riley’s ENT, Neurologist and the Pulmonologist, but I wanted to get in and be seen as soon as I got the results.  But that would not be the case.  So instead I started searching online for my own answers. I did not find any, so I resigned myself to waiting.

When Riley was in the NICU she had 4 different sleep studies all with around the same results. I will these numbers with the most recent results.
12/28/09: RDI- 68.7/hr. (obstructive apnea (OA) -38.6/hr, hypopnea (H) -15.6/hr, mixed apnea (MA) -3.0/hr, & central apnea (CA) - 8.4/hr)
2/12/10: RDI- 40.5/hr. (H-35/hr, MA-4.9/hr & CA-.3/hr)
3/13/10: RDI- 59.6/hr (OA -33.4/hr, H-22.7/hr, MA-3.5/hr & CA-1.7/hr
3/16/10: RDI- 52.5/hr (OA-30.9/hr, H-17.5/hr, MA-3.1/hr & CA-.9/hr

The sleep study after the trach was placed was the best one:
5/6/11: RDI- 5.7 hour (OA-.2hr, H-2.2hr, & MA-.7hr)

Then we had a repeat test in January of last year that showed the apnea was coming back. Our ENT decided that it was time to take out Riley’s tonsils and adenoids; though when she went in Riley’s tonsils were not big so she left them in.
1/20/12: RDI- 16.6hr (OA-2.0hr, H-10.3hr, MA-.8hr, & CA-3.5hr

Then we had another follow up last summer that showed that it was still not getting better so we tried Riley on the CPAP machine. Which was not a success. Shortly afterward Riley’s shunt stopped working. It was then thought that the apnea had come back because the shunt was not function properly.
7/2/12: RDI-26.6/hr (OA-14.0/hr, H-10.0/hr, MA-1.6/hr, & CA-1.0/hr

Then we got the most recent results….
4/12/13: RDI-105.7/hr (OA-6.0/hr, H-98.2/hr, MA-1.3/hr, & CA-.2/hr.)

Yeah they are as bad as they look. When you look at these the RDI is the total number of times Riley’s breathing either stops or is shallow to the point where she rouses or has a destat. The other numbers are a breakdown of the 105.7/hr. So basically 6 times an hour Riley is not getting any air going through her airway, 98.2 times an hour her breathing is shallow enough that she is rousing from a deep sleep (33.7 times out of the 98.2) or her oxygen level is too low.

The hypopneas are more concerning then the full obstructions at this point. Every time that you are roused from a deep sleep to a shallower level of sleep your blood pressure goes up. And every time your blood pressure goes up you increase your chances of developing heart and lung problems.  So Riley’s blood pressure is INCREASING 33.7 TIMES AN HOUR. Come on…Really.  33.7 times an hour!  THIS IS A PROBLEM.

The other thing that is not expressed in these numbers is Riley’s CO2 levels.  It is normal to have CO2 in your blood; a normal level is between 35-45mm of Hg. Anything above 50% is considered hypoventilation. Riley is peaking at 65% and 68% of sleep study above 50%.  So this is bad.

The only good news in this study is the number of central apneas has gone down, meaning that it is not a problem with Riley’s brain telling her to breath.

So at this point we do not have a plan of action other than trying to get Riley use the CPAP machine again.  We have ordered a new CPAP mask because the one we have is not working for Riley.  I will do a separate post about the CPAP machine. And Riley masks once we get the new one in.

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Wordless Wednesday

One of the other blogs that I read does this wordless Wednesday.  I thought I might try to start doing this. So this one is not completely wordless.




"Typical' Toddler

I spend alot of time thinking about how different Riley is from other children her age.  But this weekend and tonight she reminds me how the similar she is to children her age too.

On Sunday we went over to the playground that is across the street from our house because two of the other kids who are around Riley age and understand Riley's differences were out playing. After swinging on the swings and sitting and watching the other kids run around (Riley loves doing this) it was time to go in and have dinner.  So we said goodbye and the other kids were going in too.  Well Riley was not ready to go in.  She is threw a fit.  She pulled my hair and tried to bite me.  It made me realize that this was behavior that other "typical" 3 years would do.

Then tonight at bath time Riley decided that Mommy needed bath too.  She would splash around then turn and smile at me, then splash me again.

She amazes me everyday!

Days 106-118 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

4/24: I am thankful to have a rook over my head.

4/25: I am grateful for good friends.

4/26: I am thankful that the Dogwood tree in my backyard seems to be coming back.  It is starting to bloom now.

4/27: I am thankful to my mom who came over on a Saturday to make bow for my sister-in-law's wedding.

4/28: I am thankful for the Nook Kyle gave me several years ago for Christmas.  It has allowed me to read more than ever before.

4/29: I am grateful to have dinner with my girl friends from high school.

4/30: I am grateful that Kyle and I can fight and talk through our problems.  Ever marriage has it ups and downs and as long as you both are trying to make it work it will.

5/1: I am grateful that Riley and Ella, our 85lb Rotti, are such good friends.  And that Ella is so good with Riley.

5/2: I am thankful for how Macy makes it to return and exchange things.  I brought a great dress that had weird stitching in it and they made it super easy to exchange it for another without my receipt.

5/3: I am grateful to Riley's wonderful teachers and the staff at her school.  They had Field Day to today and it was so fun to watch Riley interacting with the other kids in her class.

5/4: I am thankful that Kyle took off of work so that I could go to a concert for my sister-in-law's bachorolette party.

5/5: I am grateful for a quiet Mommy and Riley day.

5/6: I am thankful that the weather held out for us yesterday so we were able to go to the Zoo.

5/7: I am thankful for how happy Riley is when I come home from work.  It makes even the worst day better.



Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Days 100-105 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

4/18: I am grateful to one of my coworkers.  After listening to me get not great news about Riley's sleep study and she decided that I needed to get out of our office and took me to lunch.

4/19: I am grateful to our ENT's assistant.  She was able to get us on our favorite ENT's schedule quickly without alot of fuss.

4:20: I am thankful for my sisters-in-law and mother-in-law they invited me to go shopping all day and I was able to enjoy myself without worry about everything going on with Riley and her sleep study.


4/21: I am thankful for my husband who does alot of home improvements.  He redid our deck this weekend and it looks wonderful now.

4/22: I am thankful to Riley's pulmonologist for fitting us in for a refit for a new mask for Riley's CPAP machine. 

4/23: I am thankful for the quiet evening I get to spend with Riley.  She amazes me everyday.

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Days 92-99 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

4/11: I am grateful for Facebook. Now that might seem weird but I am able to share pictures of Riley so easily with family that don't get I see her much an that is awesome.

4/12: I am grateful that Riley didn't fight too much having all of the equipment for the sleep study put on and slept through the night.

4/13: I am gratefully for my extended family we had a wonderful evening with Kyle's family celebrating my in laws anniversary

4/14: I am grateful for he beautiful weather and Kyle for coming with me to the Cherry Blossom festival so I could take pictures

4/15: I am grateful that I get to have Mondays off of work so I can spend them with Riley

4/16: I am grateful for Kyle who made dinner and cleaned up afterward

4/17: I am grateful for my wonderful friends I can go weeks or even months with someone of ten without talking to them but we are able to talk and pick up conversation like no time has passed


Saturday, April 13, 2013

Mastering "In"

Riley has been receiving OT services for 3 years.  And one of the goals that they had been working on with her is to get her to put things "IN."  In December she aged out of the Infant and Toddlers Program (I&T) and started ECI (school) in January.  In her very last session with her I&T OT, that she had for 2 years, she was able to demonstrate "IN."  This was such a thrill for Maureen (the OT) that she got to see her master a skill she had worked so hard to help her with.  Here is best video (and it is not very good) of Riley showing the skill.  She of course stop doing it better when I pulled the camera out.

This video is from 12/17/12:


Riley has now been in school for alittle over three months. And I think we can truly say that she has master the skill of "IN."

This video is from 4/7/12:

What a difference three months can make!!!

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Homemade Camera strap

So I am said in previous post that I am obsessed with Pinterest. I am also really getting into photograph for fun.  And I am trying my hand at crafting.  So why not combine all three.

I found a pin to this blog post and I thought "Hey I can do that." So I did.

I did my a bit differently then the post said because I use a hand strap.  That is similar to the pictures below.
  

So I wanted to be able to easily clip on a shoulder strap when I needed it and be able to remove it quickly as  well.  So instead of just attaching it via rings in the original post I added clips.

So here is what you are going to need:
2 heavy duty jewelry clasps
2 small rings
2 large rings
Needle nose pliers
1 Scarf/belt/Fabric cut to length you desire, about 30inches
      Remember to include about 1-2 inches of extra fabric on either end for sewing
 
 
 I had a short scarf that was my Grandmother.  I never wore it so I decided to re-purpose for this.


First I needed to remove the fringe. This was simply looped into the main body of the scarf so I was able to do this without cutting to avoid the scarf coming undone.



 This left me with a single string at the end which I just cut off.


Here it is with one side done and one not.


Then I threaded the large ring on the end of the scarf and folded over the end.  I tried to make sure that the scarf would lay as flat as possible.  Then I did a simple straight stitch using my sewing machine.  I made sure to go over the ends several times to lock the ring in.

After the large ring was in place I used the needle nose pliers to open the smaller ring open so it could be thread into the clasp and onto the large ring

After I had them in place I used the pliers to close the small ring back together. Be sure to make sure that you close the rings tightly and that they don't open with the weight of you camera.  I strapped mine on then stood over my couch and check to make sure it would hold before I went out with it.  That way if ti didn't my camera would only land on the couch and the concrete.

Your strap can now be clipped to the slots on your camera.  It make it even easier to clip on and off I added small rings to the slots on my camera.  Now I don't even have to remove my hand strap to put on my solder strap.






Update on Project New Me

Project New Me is going pretty well. I had been down 12 lbs, but I had a back slide at Easter. My family came in and I did not pay attention to what I was eating and I put 6 lbs back on. That was really discouraging, especially because it was completely my fault. But I buckled down with my diet and started exercising and I drop 5 lbs since Easter. So that brings my total weight loss to 11 lbs. Which means that I get to mark another goal off my list. YEAH ME!!

I am the worst self motivator, so I am trying some new things to help myself succeed. I have added an alarm to my phone to reminder to exercise everyday. I have added a second alarm to try to get myself to go to bed at a decent time. And I still have my signs around my house.

Starting weight: 185 lbs
Current weight: 174 lbs
Goal weight: 145 lbs

So here are my goals:
1. Drop 5 lbs
2. Work out every day even if it only for 10 minutes (Number of days in a row of working out: 1)
3. Drop 10 lbs
4. Follow my diet
5. Drop 15 lbs
6. Don't cheat, ie no candy
7. Drop 20 lbs
8. Drop 25 lbs
9. Drop 30 lbs
10. Drop 35 lbs
11. Drop 40 lbs

Wow

I am amazed by how many views my post from early today has got.  Since I posted it early this morning my blog has had over 250 views.  That is amazing, I have never had that many views in one day.

Day 91 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

4/10:  Today I am grateful that my parents taught me to stand up for myself and the people that I love.

Medical history brochure

When Riley came home from the NICU, we came home with a very long list of doctors, 8 diagnosis, and 7 surgery dates to keep track of.  I was not sure how I was going to keep it all straight. We went for a follow up with Riley's pulmonologist and we were talking about trying to keep everything straight.  The doctor mentioned that one of her other patient's mom had created a brochure that they updated as needed. 

I thought that this was a brilliant idea so I went home and jumped on word template and found a trifold brochure.  I added pictures of Riley, all of her doctor' names and phone numbers, a brief history of her, all her diagnosis, surgeries (including dates), medication, pulled information from the Chromosome 18 website about Tetrasomy 18p.  I pulled this information most people don't know about Tetrasomy 18p.  Here is a copy of the template for the trifold brochure with information about Tetrasomy 18p.

As Riley got old and her history got longer, we got more doctors, added more services, and surgeries.  And the trifold brochure was not big enough for us any more.  So I went back in word template and end up finding a Christmas newsletter template that I convert into a 3 page brochure.  This allowed me to add milestones Riley had meet, a longer history, more details about her oxygen requirements, vision, hearing, and sleep study results.  Here is the link for the 3 page brochure with information about Tetrasomy 18p.

All of Riley's doctors love this brochure.  I update it as need.  I add new pictures.  It is great when we meet with a new doctor since her chart is so huge they can quickly look over the brochure and get a better idea about her.  It also has the link for the Chromosome 18 website so they can educate themselves about her too.  It has come in handy in an emergency too.  When you are panicked it hard to remember the last surgery or if her kidney reflux is on the left or right side.  This way you can just hand a copy to the paramedics or ER doctor.

I keep two or three in Riley's diaper bag. I also gave a copy to Riley's teacher when she started school.

This brochure is great for kids with lots of medical needs.  It is also great for when you are taking care of parent and there is more than one person handling the care.  It is an easy way to keep everyone on the same page.








Not so fun way to spend a Friday night...

I was looking forward to spending a quiet Friday evening with Riley as so she decided not to take a nap for my mom. Instead I spent the evening riding in an ambulance and in the ER.

Riley has become a climbing, crawling machine. Which is awesome but comes with it own challenges. She is not very coordinated so she falls down a lot and when she pulls herself up on to things she will just let go and go falling backwards.

On Friday the 22nd she was crawling around on the floor while we were watching Sprout and she decided that she wanted to get closer to the TV. We have a TV cabinet that has door was glass windows on the front.


She has been climbing up it for weeks she will be in her knees in front of it and put her hands up on the glass. I have been nervous that she is going to put her hands through the glass, lucky that has not happened. However that night she was wearing velour type pants and as she climbed up her knees slipped out from underneath of her and down she went. She has done this before but unfortunately this time her head caught the corner. I ran over and picked her up she started crying.  I went and got or booboo bunny out the freezer and a binky.  We went and sat on the couch.  She was not a big fan of the ice pack, but I able to get in on for a short period of time.  She did end up calming down, unfortantely it was right around bedtime but after a fall like that I did not want to just put her down.  So we relaxed on the couch for about 15 minutes playing on the iPad and watching Sprout.  After that she seemed to be fine and started to crawl around on the couch not wanting her to fall off the couch and hit her head again I put her on the ground to play.  She started coughing, but it was not a normal cough so I was keeping a close watch in her to make sure her coloring stayed ok. 
She pulled her self up to stand make to the couch and had another cough episode expect this one ended with her vomiting a little onto the couch. I jumped up and sat her down as she threw up again.  As I got her shirt off her she threw up a third time. I had called my mom to let her know that I was going to take her to the ER.  My mom told me to just call 911.  After getting the ambulance on the way I took her upstairs and put her in the empty tub in case she got sick again.  I tried to get in touch with Kyle but of course he was in the middle of a call and didn't answer.
She sounded a bit like she was having breathing issues so I grabbed her oxygen tank but she would not let me out the nasal cannula on her. The paramedics had arrived.  Of course by now Riley is acting more like her normally self, but I still wanted to have her check out since she was vomiting and she hit her head on the same side as her shunt.

I am been calm up until the paramedics got there and I had to explain what happened.  That is when I felt like i was having a panic attack.  The wonderful paramedic kept me calm and helped me gather everything that I needed to get out the door.  They even locked my front door for me.  As we are loading into the ambulance Kyle called me back.  I told him what was going on and that he should come home.

We check into the ER and were seen relative quickly.  My parent came down and Kyle rushed home from work.  Riley was acting pretty normal at this point and had not vomited again.  The doctors order a CT scan.  These are always fun with her.  She has to sit still to get a good picture and she hates laying on that table.  So she ends up wrapped up like a burrito with my hold her head still.  It is a workout in and of it self.  The tech tells me that it should be read 20 minutes and they they read them remotely.  Which is nice for the radiologist.

It is then the waiting game for the CT to read, that was the longest 20 minutes I have ever been through.  Mostly because it was actually like 45 minutes before they told us that the scan was clean.

They discharge us home, but tells us that we need to wake her up every 2 HOURS.  Grrr!  It was a long night.

Days 71-90 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

3/21: I am grateful that our dog, who is a 85lbs Rottweiler is so awesome with Riley.  She climbs all over that poor dog and Ella just takes it or moves away when she has had enough. 
3/22: I am grateful to the paramedic that kept me calm and in control while trying to get Riley ready to go in the ambulance.  See this post to why we where in the ambulance.
3/23: I am thankful to the Disney store in White Marsh that were able to hold a Peter Pan costume for me for my cousin.  I have been looking for one since Christmas and he is going to be so excited for it when he comes to visit this weekend.
3/24: I thankful for my understanding friends.  Riley and I were suppose to go to a birthday party at the bounce house but since she had been in the hospital on Friday.  I decided that it was not a great idea and my friend totally understood that I had to cancel at the last minute.
3/25: I am grateful that my job has some flexiblity when it goes to working from home.  We only have one car that is good in the snow and today we got a spring snow storm, so hubby was able to take the safe car and I was able to work from home and not have to take leave.
3/26: I am grateful for my mom, she washed my floors today.
3/27: I am thankful to my husband for helping get our house in order for my family visiting.
3/28: I am thankful for my wonderful hairdresser.  He always makes me feel like a million bucks
3/29: I am grateful for my wonderful family.  We had a wonderful day at the train museum.
3/30: I am thankful both sides of my family are so awesome.  My parents had a big Easter celebration and both my dad's and mom's families where there. It was so much fun.
3/31: I am grateful that Riley is so good in church.
4/1: I am grateful to have a extra day off from work.  We had a great weekend but it was very tiring.
4/2: I am grateful for my cousin Lauren, because today was her birthday.
4/3: I am grateful that my Godson Ian is doing so well after being in a feeding program for 8 weeks.
4/4: I am grateful that I had friends that had wonderful senses of humor.  I posted a really old picture from the 80s and take several of my old friends and they all had awesomely funny comments about it.
4/5: I am grateful that the weather is starting to get nicer outside and our neighborhood is starting to come alive again.  When I came home from work today I found Kyle and Riley out at the park with
4/6:  I am grateful for my cousin Harrison.  He turned 2 today.
4/7: I am grateful that I have another day off before I have to go back to work.

4/8: I am grateful for the beautiful weather that we are having today.  i actually slept with the windows open in my bedroom last night

4/9:  I am thankful for one of my coworkers.  She is a wonderful photographer and knows that I am trying to teach myself.  She lent me a book all about composition of a great picture.  I can't wait to read it.

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Days 66-70 of 365 Days of Thankfulness

3/16: I am grateful for my loving family.
 
3/17: I am grateful that we have a finished basement.  Riley and hung out and played all day down in the basemen.
 
3/18: I am grateful that our car did not need major repairs that it was only some low fluids.
 
3/19: I am thankful that had invested in Carbonite (even if it did take forever to backup my computer) as we had to replace the hard drive (again) in our laptop
 
3/20: I am grateful that I did not get pulled over or in an accident (actually I am thankful everyday when these things don't happen) as I left my wallet at home today!

Saturday, March 16, 2013

Days 60 - 65 of 395 Days of Thankfulness

3/10: I am thankful that I got to spend the day with my future sister-in-law.  We had a very nuce day exploring Ellicott City and then had tea.  It was alot of fun.

3/11: I am thankful that I still get together with my friends from high school for dinner.  we try to get together at least once a month.

3/12: I am grateful to the Mary Kay ladies that taught me how to do a smokey eye.  I have watned to learn how to do that so awhile now.

3/13: I am thankful that Kyle and I are in a position that we are able to make improvements to our house. 

3/14: I am thankful for my in-laws who made us dinner last night after we had to drop our car off to be fixed.

3/15: I am grateful to come home after a long day to Riley smiling face and then spending time playing in the floor with her. 

The Great Sippy Cup War of 2013

Our household is embroiled in The Great Sippy Cup War of 2013. And I am sad the admitted that the 3 year old is winning.

Riley was never bottle fed. She went right from her G-tube to a sippy cup. You can read more about that journey in this post. And when we picked out a Sippy for her then we went with this Munchkin cup.

It also came in one that was bigger with no handles:

Riley will drink from either one of these without a problem.  The problem now is that Munchkin doesn't make that exact cup any more.  They change it to this cup:

Which looks very similar.. I know.  But my Riley can tell the difference.


Her cups mouth pieces look like this:


And the new cup mouth piece look like this:

It is wider.  It also is more floppy.  The part that the fluid comes out of is lower on the new cups.


So she won't take that cup.  I now am the proud owner of 13 different kinds of sippy cups.  And she refuses all of them.  Some of them she chooses to throw across the room when offered them.

Our collection of sippy cups.

We have tried other soft tipped cups:

And a few cups with straws.  But she doesn't know how to suck on a straw.  And I am kinda of at a lost as to how to teach a child that doesn't understand everything I say to her had to suck on a straw.

I have even gotten a few cups that open spouts.  But I am afraid to just offer her these as she throws her cups and leaves them on their sides on the floor.  And I am sure that I will be cleaning up more milk than she drinks.

So the search continues.  If any one has an suggests on a cup to try I am all ears.  I may have lost all of the battles so far, but I will win the WAR!!!!!

Riley: 12
Mommy: 0